First Time
by: Boyd
Being a Christian, I naturally had been taught the body shame and disgrace of being nude, especially in front of others. But for some reason, while I was about 12-13 years old, I was on a farm and found out that running in the pastures and woods was fun naked. Over the years, I would find places alone to be nude. But something was just not right. First, I was alone in my feelings and couldn't talk to anyone about it, and two, my religious teachings still gave me a guilty feeling.
When my wife and I were in our 4th-5th (in my late 30's) year of marriage, I started to look into naturism a lot more seriously, but my wife was against the idea. Not that she was against being nude with each other since we did that a lot around the house anyway, but was afraid of the social idea. She thought I was going to some sex crazed wierdo bunch. And of course she doubted that there were any more than a couple of real nudists in the whole state anyway. So that would make me stand out even more.
I found a magazine called Nude and Natural Issue 16.1 I believe. It was the issue that published the "205 Arguments and Observations of Naturism". I took that home and read it through. Then a few days later I showed it to my wife. We discussed it, prayed about it, studied it and decided to give it a try. She wanted to talk to our pastor about it at first, but I told her that we can't always depend on what they say on this. I already know what they will say, "No". So our beliefs are in vain. Either it is between us and God or it's not. So we decided to keep it between us two and we've been at it now for about four years. Keep in mind, we are not just sneaking around our church to do something "sneaky and underhanded", but doing this on our own because of our beliefs. Later we hope to tell our pastor and church. There is a couple we may tell fairly soon.
So we decided to visit Bar-S-Ranch in Riedsville, NC. It was a wonderful experience and my wife enjoyed it too. But for some reason, she always wants to go home earlier than I would like to, so we left around 3:00 pm, but boy did I resist! I was enjoying my new found freedom and was aching to go back. Our next trip was at Whispering Pines, also in NC near Myrtle Beach, SC. We liked that place a lot better, even though it is much smaller, and have been back. We have not joined any clubs or organizations yet, but our life has been much better since then. Eventually, we'll get settled down (yeah, right) and maybe join a club and go a little more regularly. The nearest club is about 65 miles away.